Let It Go and Move It Along.

This is something I have been thinking about a lot lately. Letting go. I've been on this whole positive living kick for awhile now and so far I feel like I've been doing pretty good at it. I'm staying far from drama, surrounding myself with nothing but positive people and getting my negative thoughts under control. BUT I've realized there are still a few things in my past that I need to let go. From sucky relationships to failed friendships to things that I feel negative about that I really didn't have any control over. Don't get me wrong, I don't hold grudges and I have forgiven everyone that I feel like have done me wrong in the past few years. Now I just need to let it go, meaning I need not to let those issues affect the way I think or affect the decisions I make today. Especially in the relationship department. The last thing I wan't to be is that girl who carries over all of her unnecessary issues into a new relationship (aka bag lady).


I once read somewhere that a good way to let things go is to write a letter to anyone that you still have any negative feelings towards and tell them whatever it is that you need to finally let go..but you don't actually send the letter to them. Instead, you tear it up and make a promise to yourself to never revisit the ish again. I've attempted this before but have never actually gone through with it, so by me telling ya'll now I feel obligated to put on my big girl panties and get it done. And I think it will be good getting it off of my chest.

Happy Fake Friday kiddos.


Her & Nicole